Liv's Blog

Liv's Blog

Liv's blog is a compilation of posts from the GoFundMe site, created initially by Jess Cope - a long time friend and collaborator with Lasse Hoile during their work on projects for composer and musician, Steven Wilson. Many of the posts will contain moving contributions from Lasse, Vitalia and their colleagues including video clips and photography of Liv's brave progess through her treatments and life at home with her parents. We hope you will learn from their experiences and help to spread and gather support for Liv and other children in similar situations.


A difficult update
A difficult update

A difficult update, but still keeping hope alive for our little Liv

Dear friends and supporters,

This past week brought some hard news. After months of hoping and testing, both Vitalia and I have learned that we are not suitable matches to be kidney donors for our little Liv. Obviously, that was not the news we were hoping to get.

But the search continues. Other close family members are still being tested, and we’re holding on to hope that a match may still be found there. In the meantime, we’re also preparing for the possibility of Liv needing to go on the transplant list. While that option is not worse, it does come with a longer waiting period, a slower start for the new kidney, and a more delicate recovery. But we will do whatever it takes - and we have to be ready.

That’s why Liv’s new therapy space at home is more important than ever. It’s still under construction, running behind schedule (as these things often do), but we’re aiming to have it finished by the end of June. This space will be vital in helping Liv grow stronger and more prepared for the transplant journey ahead.

At home, we continue daily training with her. She’s had a few difficult days lately, likely due to needing her regular EPO dose, which helps her body manage the effects of kidney failure. Her weight has dipped slightly - down to 13.4 kg - and our doctors would ideally like to see her closer to 15 kg before surgery. We’ll be back at the hospital next week to check on her vitals and adjust her care as needed.

Despite everything, Liv continues to shine her light. Every step she takes, every smile, every laugh - it reminds us why we fight so hard. And your continued support gives us the strength and means to keep going, even on the harder days.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for walking this road with us.

With love,
Lasse, Vitalia, and Liv ❤️

Taking Her First Steps
Taking Her First Steps

Taking Her First Steps!

Hello to our wonderful supporters and friends.

We wanted to share a little update on Liv’s progress. Our brave girl has recently started training to walk with the help of a special walker (or gait trainer, as they call it!). It’s such a heartwarming sight to see her standing and taking little steps with the guidance of her most amazing physiotherapist, we feel truly blessed to have her.

Since her dedicated space isn’t quite ready yet, Liv is practicing right in our tiny living room, which is a bit tight for all her needs. The project to finish her special therapy space has taken longer and has been more expensive than we originally estimated. But seeing her determination makes every moment worth it.

Right now, Liv is only able to receive one hour of physiotherapy at home each week, as her health means we can’t take her out much. Still, we’re hopeful and committed to helping her grow stronger and more independent.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for being part of this journey with us. Your support is making a world of difference for Liv.

With love and gratitude,

Liv, Vitalia & Lasse